There are NO shortcuts

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I am currently in the process of onboarding a couple of interns for this coming summer who will be working on our various digital platforms, image creation, video and audio editing and back end support for summits, webinars and live streams.

We have now sponsored over 20 university co-op students over the last few years as we have built out our websites to provide content for all youth sports stakeholders and as we onboard new students each time, one of the key teaching points I share with them is the importance of having a strong work ethic and have used a myriad of sports analogies over the 4 months they work with us to ensure they finish the term strong.

This comes from the many years of playing various sports where coaches would remind me and all of my team mates of the importance of work ethic, something that has been lost in part in recent years where many parents, kids have fallen into the early sport specialization trap but not recognizing the importance of practicing the way they will actually play in games.

What separates those that reach the highest levels they aspire vs. those that do not having coached hundreds of different players in different sports and now having interacted with thousands of coaches that have shared similar stories of players they coaches, is the fact that the ones that excel are the ones that have superior work ethics to do vs. those that have a tendency to not run through the finish line.

There are so many analogies I can share as examples of those that reached the elite level, below are three that come top of mind;

Sidney Crosby

When Sid (The Kid which is no longer the case) was coming up the pipeline many felt that he was the next Wayne Gretzky, much like people feel now of Connor McDavid.  What has separated Sid from the rest of the pack and what has made him the player he has become is not the fact that he focused on hockey from a young age like many kids do today, is his commitment to practice like he is going to play every practice.

He even will ask his team mates not to pass “tape to tape” so that he can retrieve pucks that are too far away or caught up in his feet to kick to his blade and doing so at full speed.

He is so committed to working on his skills even now at the age of 31 years old, that the Pittsburgh Penguins, according to a story shared with one of my colleagues who interviewed Mike Johnston, former head coach, built as second practice rink adjacent to their initial rink so that he and other players would not have to wait for the Zamboni to clean the ice for 15 minutes.

Per his current head coach Mike Sullivan

“The quality that allows Crosby to remain atop the league, coaches and teammates say, is his unique work ethic, an ability to specify subtle areas for improvement and work with meticulous precision until they match the other elite elements of his game. … “He’s a generational talent,”

 

Micheal Jordan

Many know the story that he was released from the first high school team that he tried out for, was totally distraught, cried as a result for quite some time after the fact but he made a commitment to be the best he could be, and ultimately became arguably one of the best ever to play in the NBA by working tirelessly to do so.

The same work ethic transferred to when he decided to retire from basketball when he lost his Dad, to pursue a career in professional baseball and although never made it to the MLB White Sox, he honed his craft over a few years in the minors by working tirelessly every day with hitting and other specialty coaches to improve his batting %, stealing bases and so forth.

 

 

Walter Payton (AKA Sweetness)

 

Hi workout routines to this day are still used as examples for those in the NFL to mirror and what many don’t know is he mentored a former high school player to work out with him which he did for years.  In the short clip below he shares the 5 years that he did so with Walter where they became good friends as a result and talks about the infamous hill (AKA Hell) they trained on.

 

 

There are many other examples that I can cite of professional players whose work ethic got them there like Kobe Bryant (sadly who we lost way too early last year), Tom Brady, Muhammad Ali, Pelé, all of which continued to work on their craft while even when they reached the levels they did professionally.

This is the big takeaway that youth coaches must remind their players regardless of the level to ensure that they don’t cheat themselves, and at the same time their team mates, of the importance of working hard during every game, practice … to reach the highest level possible, there are no shortcuts.  Too often over the many years of coaching I would see kids that had great skills but when push came to shove they did not put in the extra effort to hone their craft and as a result they got passed by many of their less “skilled” counterparts.

Those that reach the tip of the pyramid don’t make shortcuts along the way, they recognize that it take YEARS to reach that the highest level they aspire to and continue to work on their crafts even when they do.

 

 

PS Tagline - Dont be a kids last coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I want to try the impossible ….

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Source – Terry Fox Foundation

For the past couple of months I have been going thru the whirlwind of moves, I sold my warehouse/office so that we could get into a more appropriate office only layout and also helped my inlaws move out of their house the in-laws literally around the same time.

The day of their completion was the day of my marathon move day Aug 2nd, 15 hours, thanks in part to the moving company double booking their third mover and were able to find someone in operations to fill in (who had NO moving experience).

Our new office is on the second floor, with 24 steps separated by a landing that the movers and even myself and friends and family that have helped out have taken a rest while we moved the furniture, filing cabinets, desks, computers, printers and everything so we would have the workstations required for our expansion and accommodate future growth.

All the while I was going thru the viewings of potential new spaces, then finalizing the lease on what is now our office with an adjacent meeting area the landlord has agreed to rent us on case by case basis for our live presentations.  More to follow on that front once we procure the chairs, tables for us to permit us to do so.

I kept saying to myself and others that I was going thru a marathon daily and shared analogies like on a much smaller scale and can truly appreciate what Terry Fox must have went thru in his quest to cross Canada on one leg after he lost his other leg to Cancer.

My Nanny (grandmother) was a huge fan of Terry, she even had an area in her apartment with news paper clippings, prints and various other memorabilia that I have in one of the many, many boxes that are still staged in the open area of our new office that I plan to do the same.

She would often share one his quotes with me whenever I was up against various challenges in my youth in sports or school one her favorite quotes from Terry “I want to try the impossible so I can prove it can be done.”

The reason it was her favorite is she was one of my biggest role models growing up, she raised 9 children (yes 9) in the era starting in the depression, second world war for the most part on her own as she divorced my grandfather soonafter the 9th child was born.

The older siblings started to work as early as 12-13 and the oldest 3 did not complete high school but the work ethic that she instilled in every single one of them was one that I will never forget.  What she did in a sense many would feel is impossible in today’s era where most families only have 2-3 children due largely to the costs to raise kids, pay for horrendous mortgages, gas and spiraling costs requiring both guardians to work.

This is why Terry became such a role model for me as she would reference the adversity that he went thru to accomplish what many felt was impossible at the time.

When he embarked on his journey to raise funds for cancer in April 12th 1980, all the naysayers running a marathon EVERY day (26 miles) and did so each day only taking 4 days off of 137 days, one day to spend time with a 10 year old boy who also lost his leg to Canada.

Can you imagine running ONE marathon in a year?  I know many people that train for many months to participate in the Vancouver Sun Run, others that train for biathalons, but I can’t imagine for an instance how he did what he did each and every day, getting up a 4AM, running 14 miles, then taking a break to fuel up, and run a subsequent 12 miles.

It was his determination, commitment that lead to all the accolades he received but even after he had to stop when the cancer returned and spread to lungs he shared with reporters if he could return to complete the marathon of hope he would.

Sadly he was not able to return to finish his cross country marathon, and his journey ended after 3000 miles in Thunder Bay, approx. 2/3 of his goal to return home to his home town in Pitt Meadows, BC (outskirts of Vancouver).

Whenever I see kids today say “I can’t” in a practice or a game I say to them, yes you can, push yourself so you can say after the practice or game that you left everything you had out there.  These were the very same words of wisdom my Nanny would share with me, thanks in part to her following the likes of Terry and many others who never gave up like she did raising 9 kids on her own while never “working” a day in her life (she remarried to whom we called Papa John who had a great job and provided for her and the younger siblings so she could do what she did best, be a mother and grandmother to all the many cousins afterwards).

This is what Terry did, he left it all out on those highways, thru the weather challenges, the dehydration, initial lack of awareness, the scarring on his stump left after the surgery from the rubbing of the prosthesis, the true fatigue he had each and every day as he head out to run another 26 miles.

Source – Terry Fox Foundation

What drove him?

Kids.

He did not want any other kids to be victims of cancer, or anyone for that matter.

One of the days that he did stop to take a break he spent time with a 10 year old Greg Skun who also lost his leg to cancer and cried when he shared why he was doing so as it was one of his most inspirational days.

Terry was the example for us all, the legacy that he left behind thru his marathon of hope has now raised over $500 Million for cancer research.

Although we are still over a month away from this years Terry Fox Run, each day that I haul boxes, furniture and so forth from my old space to the new space I think of Terry and my Nanny sharing her quote as I too want to try the impossible to show it can be done.

When I founded PARADIGM Sports several years back, I did so initially because of the year I had in 2013, I had my knee scoped in January and lost my best friend a few days later, then having to make the decision in August to put my mother (my biggest fan) into a hospice and she passed away on Oct. 8th, 2013 in the evening, a few hours before my birthday.

It was that 2013-14 hockey season where my son had a winning at all costs coach that then set the wheels in motion to ensure that ALL kids have the opportunity to contribute to the outcome of games with positive feedback  so they could try they also can try the impossible to show it could be done.

The state of play of youth sports evolving to adults competing with other adults thru kids has to lead to attrition rates where 70% of kids are quitting youth sports before they enter high school.

In Canada, that number could be in the area of 2.1 Million kids alone from the top five sports (swimming, soccer, dance, ice hockey, skating)

 

My dream is to ensure that all kids in Canada, as well as other parts of the world working with all of our global partners, have the opportunity to play without fear of criticism, own their youth sports and activities experience as our generation did when we grew up and most of all, have a smile on their face each time they go out there and PLAY.

Like Terry, I won’t give up on my dream and as we go into our new chapter, new office and truly look forward to continuing our work with coaches, parent’s sports administrators to create that environment for kids to have fun enjoying what they love vs. current trends replacing former active play time with inactive screen time.

As you start planning your fall seasons as coaches, executive members, please ensure that you incorporate the Terry Fox Run as part of your teams season vs. scrambling at the 11th hour to participate.  It not only will help continue raising funds for his legacy, but it is a great team bonding activity to start your season.

Source – Terry Fox Foundation

Please ensure that the legacy that you leave behind is a positive one and you are not a kids last coach.