Ode to the Sedins

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I would like to give Kudo’s to the Vancouver Canucks Organization for the amazing events they hosted this past week to celebrate the amazing careers that Henrik (Hank) and Daniel (Danny) Sedin had playing for the Canucks for their entire careers (a true rarity in this day and age of free agency, salary caps).

I was fortunate, as were many other residents of Vancouver, to see two boys drafted by Brian Burke #2 and #3 in the 1999 draft (coincidentally the birth year of my son) and watch them grow into men over the course of 18 amazing years.

#1 Their work ethic was off the charts and not just amazing hockey players, but ATHLETES. 

Even though they may not have been the greatest skaters early or later in their careers, they worked on becoming better every practice and off seasons for their entire career.  This not only included working on skating but all other core hockey skills AND balance, agility, strength, aerobic capacity.

This could be part of the reason why; check out this short video highlighting the differences of the Swedish Hockey Development Model vs. other nations and they now have the highest per capita number of players in the NHL as a result.

#2 They were extremely humble during their careers and still are

For them it was all about the team, including when their contracts came up for renewal, they accepted contracts lower than market value so they could help the team succeed which included the amazing run to the Stanley Cup in 2011 (the Canucks third since entered the league but still looking to win their last game).

#3 Founding the Sedin Family Foundation

Founded by both Hank and Danny and their wives to celebrate people, recognize achievements and address the needs of family and children and all the philanthropic fundraising to do so.

 

#4 They are the second-highest brother scoring duo in the NHL of ALL TIME

** Based on the fact that the Canucks has one of the Hughes Brothers, Quinn, and his brother Jack (Devils) now in the league both drafted in the first round, perhaps they will be the next duo to chase the Sedins record?

#5 – For all those naysayers that thought they were too soft;

Hank held the ironman streak for consecutive games 679 games! Over 10 Years including several playoff deep playoff runs including 2011 Stanley Cup run.

It ended only because of a vicious cross-check in the back of the ribs although he tried to play in two subsequent games and assistant coach Mike Sullivan shared when could not suit up the following game ending his ironman streak;

“The fact he’s been able to play that many games consecutively is just a testament to his determination and how tough he is,” Sullivan said. “Him and [twin brother] Daniel both play in the hard areas of the rink on a consistent basis because they have the puck so much.”

Danny also was durable as Hank but his longest time out of the lineup was recovering from concussion when he was knocked out (literally) by a vicious hit by Duncan Keith

I have called this type of hit the infamous chicken wing, where players raise their elbows up to a players head and knock them out, a type of hit that has now been deemed intent to injure and players have received multi-game suspensions as a result as the NHL continues to focus on protecting the players from what could be career-ending injuries

Ironically when the Canucks played the Black hawks who Keith has been with since the beginning of his career, every time he touched the puck he was booed for that hit in 2012… deservedly so.

#6 – How they evolved as leaders for the next generation of young prospects

Bo Horvat was named the team captain after one season of having alternate captains only in part to respect Hanks legacy as long time captain who took over the reins from fellow swede from same home town Markus Naslund who jersey number also has been retired and hangs high in Rogers arena adjacent to the Sedins and other Vancouver great players, Trevor Linden, Pavel Bure and Stan Smyl.

When Bo was chosen as captain, Hank handed him his jersey in a public ceremony pre-game but this was after the players had been told by Hank who the next captain was going to be in the team dressing room a few days prior to the game.

# 7 – How good they are as people

In addition to their foundation, all of the community work they did and still continue to do including supporting Canuck Place Hospice I must confess I teared up as I sadly had to move my mother from hospital to hospice as she was losing her fight to cancer.  It’s one thing for a son or daughter to lose their parent, its another thing altogether for a parent to lose their son or daughter to Cancer.

As I shared several years back, in 2013 I lost both my best friend AND my mother.

When I was at my best friend’s house for days after he passed and helped the family plan his service, all we kept saying is NO parent should bury their child.

I remember how much his parents cried that week and probably still do although they are too proud to admit it.

The work that Hank and Danny as well as all other members of the Canucks organization to support Canuck Place to help families was (and still) is amazing

 

# 8 – They were top in fitness testing on the team their entire career (although Kevin Bieksa’s roast claimed Hank would come to training camp every year overweight)

As a result of their work ethic, in all the fitness tests the team did every year, both Hank and Danny were #1 and 2 (with a competitive fire to be #1) which set the bar for all of their teammates to follow.

 

#9 – They were grateful

After their jerseys were retired, they took out a full-page ad in the Vancouver Sun and Province to thank the fans for their support over their 18-year career in Vancouver

 

In all the years that I have followed various professional sports in the Vancouver area, I think the only other professional athlete that took out a full-page ad was one of their teammates, Roberto Luongo after he was traded back to the Florida Panthers after 10 amazing seasons for the Canucks.

I only hope that the Canucks organization show the same class they showed this season in tributes to the Sedins (retiring their jerseys) and Alex Burrows (Ring of Honour) and do the same for Roberto, the way they handled the goalie controversy with emerging Corey Sneider to become the starting goaltender over Roberto only to trade him for Bo Horvat left everyone’s head spinning, including Roberto who was then back to the starter and eventually traded to Florida to make room for current starter Jacob Markstrom to take the reins.

Roberto deserved better, like the Sedins, was one of Vancouver’s top players for a decade and also a great person.

#10 – The fact they continue to call Vancouver their home

Although some professional athletes return back to their birth cities, countries, they continue to reside in Vancouver and are raising their kids and still supporting current players, coaches, and other Canucks Organization members when asked.

I will never forget watching them play live or on TV over the years and just shaking my head in awe of their raw skill and their compete level.

Their short 3-5 foot passes while cycling, behind the back passes, innovators of the slap pass now common in the league or what wowed me the most were the full cross-ice saucer passes on their forehand as well as backhand literally dropping on their brother’s sticks was amazing to see.

Off-Ice, aside from all the great community work they did, I thought this (and still is) one of the funnier things they did, when they appeared in an NHL commercial to help promote the league after the lock-out season to regain their fan base.

Over and over again this past week former teammates, coaches, general managers, and sports journalists shared the top character traits of the Sedins were (and still are):

Goodness – Decency – Selfishness – Humility – Work Ethic – Leadership 

As coaches, please ensure that you focus on reinforcing these character traits with all of your players in lieu of just focusing on the outcome of a game as has become commonplace today with the focus of winning at all costs.

Our calling as coaches is not to make a living.

Our calling is to make a difference by developing youth into adults.

Kudos to the Sedins for their amazing career, becoming not only great players, but great adults before our eyes for 18 amazing seasons.

Kudos also to their original grassroots coaches that helped develop them into the adults they became to set the bar for so many kids as role models.

 

PS Tagline - Dont be a kids last coach

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why Coaches Must Teach the importance of FINISHING

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Why coaches must teach the importance of FINISHING.

In addition to all the players I have coached over the years, I have also now worked with 15 University and College co-students (our 16th will be starting in a few weeks) who have been instrumental in helping us develop our websites, social media, digital content and hosting of online events and podcasts, I have come to appreciate how today’s generation(s) (Millennials and Gen Z) differs from Gen X (the baby boomers).

Although each one of them has left their own legacy based on projects we started at the beginning of a co-op term that I have looked back in awe at times what they have accomplished, I must confess there one of my pet peeves having worked with the Millennials and now Gen Z is their lack of appreciation of not only starting a task but finishing a task assigned at times.

Generation Z Attention Span is only 8 seconds, LESS than a goldfish

 

I continue to see instances even of co-op students and many of which share our passion as they  played various sports think nothing of taking on a project or task with vigor but due to their upbringing in the digital era with shortened attention spans with all the time they spend on screens, social media it has been something I have to reinforce with all of them.

Some examples of instances where I had to go to the student’s desks after they thought they were finished to FINISH the task or project;

#1 – We have been a long term sponsor of a charity “Dreams Take Flight” and each year have provided them various samples, promotional items from past and current lives and in back to back summers when I prompted our co-op student to help stage, they would return back to their desks before we were finished. I would then have to ask for them to come back so we could finish what we started.

#2 – Recently I asked one of our students to re: and re: two PC computers from our conference room to another area of the office and although they did a great job with the computer in the conference room, they merely plugged in the other and hooked up to the screen and then returned back to their desk but failed to test the mouse, keyboard, internet, audio where I then had to finish the task assigned.

#3 – Various other students over the years I would assign tasks of projects to and they would take on with vigor and would get to approximately 80% completion and would shift to other projects either as they thought they were finished or suspect their attention waned, particularly with some of the more mundane tasks like manually filing, bookkeeping, that I would have to come to them and highlight they were not finished the first project. It reminded me every time just how short their attention spans could be but is direct cause in effect of their upbringing thru the digital era.

I could cite many other examples but as I run our organization now incorporates the art of coaching over the years including growth mindset, safe to fail environment, connection, developing trust, cultures of excellence etc. in lieu of getting frustrated with every student all too commonplace today with coaches and parents criticizing kids for making mistakes I sit down with them and review why it is important for them to not only commit, but FINISH the task assigned. This is no different that when coaches run drills during practices and remind players not to cheat the drill (rush thru it as fast as possible) which completely defeats the purpose.

Each time I would do so I would use analogies going back to their sports experiences where coaches should reinforce the importance of FINISHING (AKA Go THRU, not TO, the line).

Analogies that I have shared with them with videos (Gen Z is highly visual and if you can’t beat them, join them) top 5 in reverse order;

#5 – Life is a game of inches (Rugby version)

We play as a team or we will die as individuals.

 

#4 – Don’t celebrate until you FINISH

 

#3 – Never Give up, it takes a village

 

Everything about the importance of finishing the race including the epitome of sportsmanship from a 17 year old high school student, reminscient of when Derek Redmond’s father assisted him finish the race in Barcelona 1992 Summer Olympics (video protected by IOC)

 

#2 – Run THRU, not TO, the goal line

Just one of many examples why players must run thru, not to, the goal line

 

Many would share that they never had coaches that reinforced the importance of commitment, finishing or sportsmanship.

To which I would shake my head in disbelief as sports should be the medium to develop youth into adults and if coaches are not reinforcing the importance of Commitment and FINISHING is no wonder why today’s generation is rushing thru tasks and not completing 100%.

I just sat down with my current student to review a project that he had taken on, but did not complete the last step as he got distracted with a newer task that was assigned to remind him of the importance and reviewed all of the analogies above to which he responded no coach he had had ever shared with him.

Below is our all-time favorite example of how a player was able to accomplish a lifetime goal and finish with the support of opponents, the epitome of sportsmanship, yet another area that I have had to remind many Gen Z players of various teams I have coached the importance of.

And Our All Time Favorite at #1

Sara Tucholsky First Home Run – Ultimate Sportsmanship to achieve a lifetime goal

 

 

If you are a coach of any sport today if you don’t reinforce life skills of commitment, finishing, and sportsmanship you have not prepared them for life beyond sport.

Remember, our role as coaches is not to make a living (as most coaches are volunteers), it is to make a difference by developing youth into adults.

Let’s all work together to bring the game back to the kids.

 

Don`t be a kids last coach