coaches – PARADIGM Sports

Posted November 4, 2021January 27, 2022 Glen MulcahyPosted in Athlete, Coach, Officials, Organization Executive, Parents

One of the 5 takeaways I share in every talk, workshop or clinic is the importance for coaches to make the environment for their players safe, as the hockey world has recently coming to terms with the Kyle Beech tragedy and the dominoes that are falling, it is just another painful and emotional reminder why we need to make it safe from all forms of harassment that I wrote on in 2017.

The other area that I have been advocating for years is the importance for coaches to make it safe to fail, unlike the coaches and parents that are highlighted time and time again in social media for their outbursts towards kids as players, officials, I have always been a believe thanks to the coaches that I had growing up to encourage to make mistakes in practices and even in games and have fun when they do so.

WHAT ?

Recommend they make mistakes, the uglier the better … what if they coughed up the puck that lead to a goal, fumbled the ball that lead to a touchdown by opposing teams, missed that free throw or field goal that could have won the game and son on.

Hmmm … there have been just a few players that were pretty good that made a ton of mistakes, but had they not done so, never would have achieved their milestones and become some of the best ever to play their respective sports.

Reggie Jackson/Babe Ruth

Reggie Jackson holds the record to this day of the most strikeouts of any player in MLB history (2597) but was touted year over year in his Hall of Fame Career as Mr. October where his bat would hit many out of the park, much like Babe Ruth who did the same decades back.

Another recent example is Mason Crosby missing 3 field goals in regulation but made the 4th to win the game in overtime for the Cheeseheads (Green Bay Packers) against the Cincinatti Bengals (whose kicker also missed 2 field goal attempts in the same game)

This was a complete surprise for all those that watched as Mason had only missed 2 field goals in the last 2 seasons combined !

Why was he to make the 4th field goal? Because he had the support of their teammates, coaches, managers who recognized that mistakes would happen and once they did, were history, was time to move on to the next play. This is in a league that is focused on winning, the top sport in the world in terms of revenue with millions of dollars in player salaries, billions of dollars in TV and merchandising revenue NOT community youth sports.

Sadly in today’s era of youth sports where it has become adultified, where adults are competing with other adults thru their kids, gone are the days where kids play without fear of failure which was prevalent in free play (i.e. pond hockey, pickup basketball, sandlot baseball) where there were no adults present (no coaches, parents or officials), it has lead to increasing attrition rates as a result.

In lieu of focusing on the results, wins/losses, goals/assists, focus on the process of development, ensure that kids are having fun and winning will be the byproduct vs. the focus.

Growth Mindset

One of my top recommendations for books for coaches, parents and youth sports leaders I the book Mindset by Carol Dweck who shares the differences between the fixed and growth mindset.

Those with a fixed mindset believe that their skills are fixed due to DNA, they don’t believe in working to improve, and fear failure so would focus on simpler tasks. Those with the growth mindset however, believe they are not that good YET, and will put in the effort to improve and recognize making mistakes is part of the process.

A perfect example of a coach that has incorporated the growth mindset with their team is Karch Karaly, voted best men’s volleyball player in sand and courts of all time, in 2012 he became the head coach of the US Women’s Volleyball team soon after he read Carol’s book and as I have shared in past their team white board encourages the players to make UGLY mistakes so they develop.

He has lead the team to their first gold medal at an international event in 2013, and medaled at the three Olympic games under his watch, including Gold at this years summer games in Korea.

In order for us to reverse the negative trends we have seen in youth sports for over a decade, we need to create an environment for not only for our players where it is safe for them to fail, but also for the young officials.

Sadly, we lose 50% of young officials in many sports (especially what I refer to as the money sports, Hockey, Baseball, Football, Basketball and Soccer) in their FIRST YEAR.

Why?

The #1 reason is due to the abuse they are taking from the adults in the stands or along the sidelines.

We subsequently lose 30% on average every year so we are literally are constantly recruiting and not allowing time to mentor and train these young officials so they can hone their craft which just creates this vicious circle.

To give you some numbers, in Canada, we have approximately 30,000 officials registered across Canada to ref minor hockey games, and every year we lose over 10,000!!!

This is not a recent trend, this has been the case since I started running Hockey Clinics over a decade ago.

It is the reason why Hockey Canada and USA Hockey came up with the campaign “Relax it’s just a game” in 2007 … 14 years ago

The focus was more on parents who are coaching or critiquing their kids, but I have also seen my share of coaches do the same towards players and officials.

Ironically, during a recent clinic that I was running, at the lunch break just before we all shut down out audio/video a coach shared with me and those that were still in the room (we have shifted to online virtual clinics in part due to COVID, in part due to efficiencies) and he shared that two parents were fighting in the stands at a U11 minor hockey game and the Police had been called in.

This was not a the zone or academy level where parental expectations are even higher (due largely due to the costs financially and time).

Time after time each time I run a clinic coaches share similar analogies how other coaches are running short benches to win games, parents are screaming from the stands or in parking lots, the ride home (or to) games/practices.

The saddest analogy and driving reason for me to continue running clinics to shift the needle is when a coach stood up to introduce himself in a in person clinic and said the reason he started to coach is his 8 year old daughter shared with him why she wanted to quit Hockey at the end of the season.

He said, with emotion in voice and tears in his eyes which made the rest of us in the room do the same (including yours truly)….

“My daughter told me that she was going to quit because she was scared of making mistakes.”

Until we make youth sports safe to fail again like it was in prior generations, we will continue to experience high rates of attrition, so if you are an adult involved in youth sports (parent, coach, administrator) please provide the players under your watch that opportunity to do so.

Win with Humility, lose with dignity

Posted January 9, 2021January 27, 2022 Glen MulcahyPosted in Athlete, Coach, Parents

Happy New Year Everyone, hard to believe that 2020 is now behind us and hopefully will see a better normal in 2021.

Like many, I shut down our office Dec 18^th and returned back on Monday Jan 4^th and as I reconnected with many of my Canadian counterparts in particular when I asked how their holiday break was the answers were literally all the same …”had a opportunity to spend quality time with immediate family due to limits on social gathering, got lots of rest, watched many of the World Junior Games, read some books”

Same for yours truly, this fall proved to be the business Oct-Mid December timeframe I have had in years a result of various summits, coach clinics, webinars I hosted and when Dec 18^th rolled around was really looking forward to doing the same.

As I watched Team Canada on their run starting with their first warmup game on Dec 23^rd and sadly lost their team captain, Kirby Dach early in the game to a broken wrist (I knew right away when I watched him head off the ice as have dealt with several players over the years that did the same) I thought to myself what a crappy way to start.

Hockey Canada CEO Tom Renney left the bubble to take Kirby to the hospital and was forced to quarantine in his room for another 5 days as a result but said when interviewed later in the tournament that it was the right thing to do, Kirby’s family could not be with him due to safety protocols and Kudos to Tom for doing so.

As the team entered the round robin and won games by significant margins (highest being against Germany 16-2) what impressed me the most is how they won the games with humility.

Unfortunately one of the tournament tie breakers is goals differential and when teams enter the cross over round goals for and against may impact their placement, but one of the rules that the IIHF implemented to limit blowouts was enforcing running time like they do in minor hockey tournaments.

When I watched the last game with my family much like many other Canadian families did on Tuesday I wore the same Hockey Canada Hoodie that I had since the first warm-up game and after the second goal was scored by Team USA early in the second period I went and got my Hockey Canada Hat and reversed as a rally cap as had done for years playing baseball/softball/slo-pitch but Spencer Knight and the rest of the USA team just did not give Canada much by keeping them outside the dots (limited high % scoring chances) other than a handful vs. what had been the case against other teams they faced.

When Bowen Byram, alternating Captain for the game required for IIHF rules (although Kirby remained captain on the team even though injured) was handing out medals to his teammates I could see the raw of emotion and disappointment that he had and brought back vivid memories for me for many of the teams I coached over the years when I was doing the same, handing out either the bronze or silver medals to my players after a tough loss.

What I would tell all of them before we hit the ice or the field for that last game of a tournament was three things much like coaches I had did growing up;

You worked hard to get to this game and all anyone can ask of you is for you to leave everything you have on the ice or the field and when the game is over whatever the outcome you can hold your head high

Make sure that you win with humility or lose with dignity, after the game no one should know whether you won or lost, there is nothing worse than when teams rub salt in a wound with excessive celebrations when they win or poor sportsmanship when they lose

AND

Most importantly, go out there, don’t worry if you make a mistake as your team mates will have your back and you will have our support as coaches and have FUN, getting to the final game in tournaments does happen often, relish the moment.

These three messages were shared with me over and over as I played numerous competitive sports and helped me overcome the adversity of tough losses like Canada’s young men experienced this year as well as taught me the importance of humility when we did win gold medals, banners, tournaments etc.

It also served me well for post-game talks as a coach, whether we pulled off the win or had a tough loss, to share how proud I was and reinforce how proud the players parents were of their kids for their amazing runs whether it be at a tournament or the end of a season, provincials etc.

Probably the best post game talk I have ever seen is one I wish I had seen early on in my coaching career, when David Belisle talked to the little league world series team he coached after being knocked out of the tournament I have shared in talks for both parents and coaches.

Whatever sport you are coaching, whether it be individual or a team sport, please ensure that you teach your players the same valuable lessons, as it is our responsibility as coaches not to make a living, but rather make a difference by developing youth into adults.

Kudos to Team Canada for their amazing run this year dealing with all of the adversity from losing the team captain out of the gate, challenges of the bubble, quarantine, being apart from their families with no fans in the stands and making all of us in Canada proud.

I am already looking forward to watching the next world juniors which also will be held in Edmonton/Red Deer in December but this time the fans, including the amazing supportive parents, should be in the stands to cheer on their sons as they chase their dreams wearing their countries national jerseys.

Will 4 on 4 be the “new” normal?

Posted June 27, 2020January 27, 2022 Glen MulcahyPosted in Athlete, Coach, COVID-19, Parents

It is so exciting to see the globe enter different phases post COVID-19 quarantine period start put all sports on hold mid March as well as other sectors coming back.

I think one of the biggest milestones for yours truly was when I finally was able to get my hair cut again, normally I do so every month, and the last appointment I had pre Covid just before quarantine period was on March 9^th so come June 19^th when I got to see my “stylist” of 25+ years was just one of many examples how we are returning back.

I recently read another great article that JJ Adams wrote for the Vancouver Sun and Province newspapers “Rec hockey overhauled to keep it fun, less risky”

The online version of the same article in the Sun Newspaper (yes, there are still people that read the paper, yours truly is one as my first “job” was carrier for the Sun for 8 years) starts with the quote that I shared in our newsletter …..

One of the main contributors to the article that JJ talked to was the CEO of Canlan Ice Sports, who run 3 multi sheet ice rinks in the Vancouver and 12 others in Canada and Illinois.

He shared how they have reinvented the format for both their adult and youth recreational leagues which I am very familiar with, having coached in all of the facilities for years and then when my son’s minor hockey “career” was over, in lieu of pursuing the junior hockey path he found very frustrating (as did I), he accepted an invitation to play for an adult team playing in ASHL tier 1 even though he was 18 at the time.

He was able to play 2 seasons with that team but like all others, his season ended March 13^th, 2020 and I know he is itching to return to play once a week with his buds as his hockey bag still sits fully packed in our garage.

I shared the highlights of the article at one of our many home cooked dinners we have had the last few months and he shared one of his fondest memories playing hockey growing up we not the 5 on 5 recreational or competitive teams he played for, but was the spring 3 on 3 on smaller ice surfaces or 3 on 3 , 4 on 4 on full ice with modified rules.

For me as well, that was some of my fondest memories, going back to watching him play with the “big boys” when he was invited to play 3 on 3 with his counterparts who were all a year older for his first spring “season” of 12 games from end of March to mid June once a week.

We played in a faculty that had 3 smaller ice surfaces that became a go to for many associations in the winter for practices, small area games and then a natural fit for cross ice hockey (ice sheets are approx. 45% smaller than a full sheet)

3 on 3 had rules to keep the flow going of the game including floating blue line (once entered the offensive zone the red line then became the blue line to keep the puck moving), changing on the fly (vs .buzzers that were being used from H1-4 when we did play full ice) and no penalties, only penalty shots. No body checking for all age groups also.

Each year thereafter he would ask me to put a team together as he had so much fun so we did and many of the original players and goalies returned year after year as they had so much fun.

Even coaches had fun, as did parents who watched many of the games from the pub (many of which would sure one of their counterparts would be the DD)

When the boys got into their teens, one of the players grandparents was the head skills developer for one of the Canlan sheets near us and asked us if they boys would like to try full ice 4 on 4 or 3 on 3 which is what really kept the bug going for my son and all of his friends.

THEY Loved both options, and although scores were kept, it was literally watching pond hockey and although I was their coach, I encouraged them all the time to just go out there and have fun, they already had their winter seasons with plenty of competitive games and practices, this was just an opportunity to keep their skate legs going once a week in the offseason.

My daughter also played one season of “fun hockey” with one of her softball counterparts, even though she could barely skate at the time, so Canlan and the other private facilities do have several fun progams and youth and adults to consider (although I am not a fan of the competitive spring hockey model that has evolved as have have shared for years)

So when I saw how Canlan was improvising so kids and adults could return back to play I same some of the similar rules we had played with as well as new ones so they could ensure that those that returned back to play could do so safely.

Canlan, like many other multi-sheet corporations like Planet Ice are privately held and run, and their recreational leagues do not fall under the umbrella of Hockey Canada.

The upside for them (and for all the hockey keeners from youth to adults) is they can run programs year round but the cons are the coaches or officials do not have to be Hockey Canada certified, nor do they qualify for Hockey Canada’s insurance program which Tom Renney et al have announced the contagious disclaimer is going to remain unchanged until 2024 to permit local hockey associations to return to play in the fall.

Some of the things that Canlan is doing to permit their leagues to start up again when physical distancing permits

#1 – In lieu of 5 on 5 (with goalie), they will be 4 on 4 (with a goalie) for cohort groups of 10 per bench (8 skaters, one goalie, one coach)

This will permit more space between the players during game play and comply with current PHO cohort guidelines

#2 – NO penalties, in lieu penalty shots (think basketball free throw)

The difference with the way penalty shots will be done Post COVID-19 is those that are awarded the penalty shot in lieu of puck being placed on the centre ice face-off dot and player skating in on a breakaway, the puck will be place in between the hashmarks and players will have to shoot for there to try and score.

OK potentially for adults, teenage players who will have the physical strength to do so, not so much for players U12 but that will adhere to the LTAD models that are restricting competitive games

# 3 – Face masks – Canlan is also working with Bauer for various of masks that players can use while playing, as well as ones for coaches, administrators, on ice officials and even parents/fans

#4 – No Face-offs – Ensures Physical Distancing is adhered to with two 10 minute running time periods (vs. 3 15-20 minute stop time)

#5 – Refs will have electronic whistles (pushing a button vs. blowing thru)

#6 – Social Distancing Dots on the bench (for 4 additional players to sit and coach to stand)

#7 – Water Bottle Shield on the bench

** Pre-Covid, it was amazing how few players brought water bottles to practices when I was doing coach evaluations … I suspect that the awareness created with COVID that will no longer need a reminder

#8 – Pregame questionnaire and “zone control attendant” to ensure adhere to social distancing when come to the facility, will be escorted to their dressing rooms that has been marked to ensure players/goals get dressed 6’ or more apart

#9 – No Showers (yikes, that could lead to some stinky drives home)

#10 – No dilly dallying in the dressing rooms post game

Translation – NO BEER for the ASHL players and one of the best part of playing adult recreation team sports, the post-game rituals and conversations in the dressing room, dugout or benches so in lieu this means they will have to improvise, adapt and overcome (i.e. head to a pub or an empty parking lot and park all their cars and open bumpers, doors to permit social distancing and ensure can answer the first question everyone will have) …..

WHO HAS THE BEER (cooler, water etc)? (The Snack)

Before the last words everyone will say as they are closing their doors to head home

WHEN DO WE PLAY AGAIN?

Kudos to Canlan, Bauer and other organizations that are working on the ways so that can all return to play the games we love to play, coach, ref and watch as safely as possible.

Why do Officials “Officiate” (2020)

Posted June 16, 2020January 27, 2022 Glen MulcahyPosted in COVID-19, Officials

Why Officials Officiate – (2020)

A few years back I shared data in original post Why do Officials “Officiate” from what was the largest survey at the time of officials, one done by the national association of sports officials (NASA) where they received responses from 17,487 officials across the USA.

Fast forward to May 2020, I connected with Brenda Hilton, the founder of Officially Human whom I interviewed for our upcoming Youth Sports Virtual Summit along with several others and she shared with me that they had done a followup survey in partnership with IUPUI Sports Information Institute, School of Health and Human Sciences in Illinois.

The survey was done in the Fall of 2019 and just shy of 19,000 officials responded from 15 states in the USA and they prepared an infographic in PDF format that you can download HERE.

Below are highlights from the survey where I have compared results below each image from the one done in 2017

One of the issues in recent years that was identified by the NASO survey and also in recent SII survey is that officials involved in sports are getting older and as a result of COVID-19 there may be a real as youth sports start to ramp up again where many may be leery of returning due to safety concerns, in lieu of verbal abuse, however, from exposure to COVID-19 virus until a vaccine is developed in 2021

The #1 reason they become officials is the same, For The Love of The Game, as is the number 1 reason for quitting, verbal abuse, and almost 60% don’t feel respected by parents and fans.

The sports that have the largest % of shortages are Soccer, Field Hockey, Lacrosse, and Baseball.

Officials also do so to stay in shape and make money (the majority of which is a small honorarium but some do make a living as officials at the higher levels)

The Second reason that officials quit is the verbal abuse from coaches, it is not just the parents and fans in the stands and sidelines that can be abusive, I have seen more than my fair share of coaches screaming at refs because they felt they missed or made a bad call which is something I remind all of during workshops and clinics.

Almost all of those that responded (96%) felt that they should see an increase in pay of at least 10%!

58% of the officials stated they are getting to work the games they want to find the process of how they are assigned to games unclear, and 1/3 stated the reason they don’t get assigned the games they want is they have to attend camps to do so but are not worth the financial outlay to attend.

Key takeaways for organizations that are looking at attracting, retaining, and growing their number of officials as youth sports slowly return back to play post-COVID-19:

#1 – Parent and Coach Education reinforcing the importance of respecting the officials including codes of conduct for appropriate behavior and positive messaging in all common areas

#2 – Reduce costs for camps/clinics so officials see the value to them

In the 2017 NASO study, much of what officials earn in their seasons is taken up in terms their out of pocket costs for necessary equipment, potentially travel expenses, meals while at tournaments, attending clinics, camps etc.

#3 – Develop Rules Education programs for coaches, parents and fans so they are aware of the respective playing “rules of the game”.

#4 – Raise their pay by 10% (or more)

Minimum wage continues to increase year over year, in my home province has increased 25% the last 3 years so youth sport organizations need to recognize that their staff including paid officials should be compensated relative to costs of living

#5 – Implement mentoring programs for youth officials to be paired with tenured officials before they age out. As the stats showed over half of the officials are over 55 years of age and the level of experience of 45% of officials is less than 6 years!!

This is largely due to the fact that rates of attrition that many sports groups face is as high as 50% of their first year officials and 30% each year thereafter

#6 – Make if Fun for ALL stakeholders, much like players, coaches, officials will only return each year if they enjoy the experience and will quit when it no longer is.

#7 – Implement policies to address poor fan or coach behavior during games so that they are removed from the facilities vs. putting the onus on the officials to say “you’re outta here” only. Many will be reluctant, as well as unqualified to do so, in their first few years to tell parents to leave so they will need support from other adults

I worked for BC Place Stadium in Security for years, and when fans became unruly, it was really simple .. we escorted them out of the facility. Why we have condoned inappropriate behavior in youth sports for years now makes no sense, kids quit, officials quit, coaches quit as a result.

#8 – Reward positive behavior by fans, coaches who demonstrate good sportsmanship in the stands towards officials, the game, players etc.

It could be as simple as coaches sharing with other coaches that their parent groups were awesome, please share our thanks to them for making this such a great experience and game to play.

As the cliche goes, you get much farther with honey than vinegar

#9 – Those that are in sports with shortages, start recruiting, training, mentorships programs NOW before games and tournaments are permitted in phase III/IV Post COVID-19.

#10 – Appreciate that the #1 reason why officials officiate is For The Love of The Game and focus on making the game GREAT for all stakeholders. This not only will help retain officials but players, coaches, board members, and all others in your organizations so you can GROW your memberships … something that is going to be a challenge as sports return back to play.

What Parents Expect When Youth Sports Return Post COVID-19

Posted June 6, 2020January 27, 2022 Glen MulcahyPosted in Coach, COVID-19, Early Sport Specialization, Officials, Organization Executive, Parents

I recently connected with a new officials organization in Illinois called Officially Human and the founder, Brenda Hilton, shared with me a recent survey was done that was circulated to 40 organizations across the US and received over 10,000 responses representing 13 different sports, 91% of those were parents who wore various hats in youth sports as coaches, administrators, officials, facility operators etc.

The survey was conducted by the Sports Innovation Institute based out of the University of Indiana and there were several interesting results that I believe sports organizations in Canada would find of interest as they continue to plan for or start rolling out their return to play guidelines in Phase II.

Below is the table outlining when youth sports can start practicing and play games

86% of the 50 states will be permitting youth sports to start practicing as of May/June
60% have confirmed that youth sports organizations will be able to start playing games

Compare this to Canadian Youth Sports that we have shared guidelines of returning to play today, many sports will be permitted to start returning to play for skills development sessions only and no confirmed dates when competitive games/tournaments will be permitted

The specific survey focused on the top 12 most common concerns identified from looking at various documents from governing bodies, trade associations and media articles

Arrival and Departure Times: Changing arrival and departure times to limit time at the venue (I.e. waiting in the car before practice/game begins, coming to the facility fully dresses, leaving immediately once the game is over)

No Spectators: Limiting youth sports competitions to players, coaches, and game officials.

Spectators under 65 with No CDC-Indicated Underlying Medical Conditions: Limiting spectators at youth sports competitions to immediate family or maximum of two people who are under the age of 65 and have no pre-existing CDC identified conditions

Health Screening: Answering a questionnaire that asks for contact information, travel itinerary, lodging, and health (status) i.e. fevers, COVID-19 symptoms to gain venue admission

Social Distancing: Sitting or standing at least 6’ (2M) apart from others in spectating areas (i.e. blocking access to bleachers, sitting every third seat or row, standing in designated locations)

Social Distancing with Respect: Treating even staff with respect if they approach you to strictly enforce social distancing guidelines

Facemasks: Being required to wear a facemask while spectating

Increased Sanitization: Facilities increasing the efforts before, during, and after events (i.e. frequent and visible cleaning, hand sanitizer available throughout the venue especially in high touch areas)

Playing Areas and Equipment: Playing areas and equipment being sanitized after each competition

Amenities: Amenities being closed at sports venues (i.e. concessions, drinking fountains, lobbies, playgrounds, entertainment centres)

Bench and Dugouts: Minimizing the capacity of bench and dugout areas for athletes

Personal Contact: Limiting personal contact between players (i.e. handshakes, high fives, hugs)

Below is the list of organizations who provided responses from private/local sports orgs all the way to NGB’s

The survey results utilized the Kano Model, below is the legend to interpret